Q & A with Pastor Josh and Jen
Q. What keeps you both on the same page in life?
A. Be flexible and bend when needed. Protect the time you have together and fight fair. You are on the “Same Team”!
Q. How can we fight fair?
A. Commit to good communication and have a “heart change” not just behavior modification.
Q. Who gets the final say in decision making?
A. The husband has the final say, if after much discussion and prayer you cannot reach an agreement. He also is responsible and accountable to God for the decision.
Q. What about living together not married?
A. Society vs Scripture - This does not please God and is not part of His plan for you.
Q. What if have been sexually active now before marriage?
A. STOP! God wants to bless you and your marriage. His plan for you is perfect.
Q. What is lustful sex? What’s acceptable?
A. Lust is selfish and dishonoring to your spouse. Lust is sinful. Desire is Godly. Pornography is probably the greatest source of lust. The marriage bed is undefiled, you and your spouse desire each other and agree together what is acceptable.
Q. Should I censor myself regarding TV and movies?
A. Yes, If you are asking this question you probably should. Change the station or leave the movie. Check out reviews.
Q. How would I respond to my child who says that they are homosexual.
A. Love them. Christ deals with sin through forgiveness and repentance. We love, not judge.